Program aids parents under stress    

Released: Feb. 9, 2004

 

By 1st Lt. Yvonne Levardi

65th Air Base Wing Public Affairs

LAJES FIELD, Azores (USAFENS) -- An Air Force Aid Society program here gives parents a few hours away from parenting one Friday a month.

The “Give Parents a Break” program funds child care for some active duty Air Force parents of children six weeks to 12 years, for a few hours the last Friday of each month at the Child Development Center and the Lajes Youth Center.

“The idea is to give parents a small break from the challenges of parenting,” Master Sgt. Margaret Jett, family readiness and Air Force Aid officer said.  

Parents who are eligible include those:

l Whose spouse is deployed or on a remote tour

l Whose spouse is on an extended temporary duty

l  Families with sudden changes such as the birth of a new baby, serious or extended illness of a family member, death in family or similarly stressful situation

l Whose child has special needs

l Whose spouse works extensive extended shifts

“This isn’t free child care,” Sergeant Jett said. “Rather, it’s a program for base officials to use in helping out families who could benefit from a night away from the kids.”

Sergeant Jett said parents can be referred to the program by their squadron commander or first sergeant, chaplain, doctor or other medical professional, family advocacy or family support center personnel, CDC program director, LYP director or family program support flight chief.

“I also issue the certificates to all members with children who out-process the family support center for temporary duty or deployment,” Sergeant Jett said.

“When I see my single parents stressed, I ask them if they want a break,” Master Sgt. Donna Maler, 65th Operations Support Squadron first sergeant said. “If an active-duty member is on temporary duty, I’ll talk to the spouse and see if they need a break. Our folks are out fighting the fight, and spouses need to regenerate themselves on the home front too.”

Sergeant Maler said the program works.

“Once, I had a single mom who needed a break from her ‘itty bits’ during Christmas,” she said. “Being a single parent with two young boys, I could understand her need for a break.”

According to AFAS guidelines, a referral certificate needs to be filled out and issued by the referring person listing recommended length of eligibility. The parent then calls the CDC or youth center here, depending on the age of the child, to make reservations by the Wednesday before the ‘break’ Friday.

“This is a very important program, especially for Lajes,” Sergeant Maler said. “Being on an island with no place to ‘run’ means sometimes parents just get stressed out and need a break.”

 

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