MARINE CORPS RECRUIT DEPOT SAN DIEGO, Calif., Dec. 12, 2003
— Young men in today's American society often choose gangs
or drugs over education, work and family.
But Marine Corps Pfc. George K. Bhimji, from Platoon 3034,
Company K, chose family despite hailing from a Los Angeles
neighborhood that presented the same troubles that landed
his brothers in jail.
"It took strength for him not to give in," said
Ellary L. Bhimji, his mother. "I always told them, 'Just
because we have to live in a neighborhood, doesn't mean we
have to be a part of that neighborhood.'"
Her son persevered through those tough winds by setting
goals and wanting more than anything to achieve them -- sometimes
for himself and sometimes for his family.
"I've learned as long as you don't quit, you are able
to get what you want," said the 24-year-old Bhimji.
He had to be an achiever for his family after his father
left.
When he was 12, he told his drug-addicted father that he
hated him. After this confrontation, he didn't see his father
again for six years, when he found him in a drug rehabilitation
center.
"It made me watch my mouth and not talk back to my
mom," said Bhimji.
In addition to learning that his father wasn't going to
be the provider and role model for his family, Bhimji had
to deal with violence and an unhealthy environment as he
grew up to be the male role model of his family.
His older, half-brother, was also a bad influence at that
time in Bhimji's life.
He finally realized what was going on around him halfway
through his teenage years, when his big brother told him
what to wear and where to wear it.
"As stupid as it was, I still had to do it so I didn't
get shot," said Bhimji.
Keeping safe also required sleeping on the floor sometimes
if someone decided to shoot at his house. |