Jason and Brent
have been best friends since kindergarten. Now that they're in high school,
they're drifting apart. It's not because they're in different classes, it's
because Brent has noticed some changes in Jason. His grades have slipped, he's
moody, he doesn't talk to his old friends, and he rarely shows up for practice.
Brent is aware that Jason has been doing drugs and he's worried that Jason has
become addicted.
Defining an
addiction is tricky, and knowing how to handle one is even harder - keep reading
to find out more about addiction.
What Are Substance Abuse and
Addiction? The difference between
substance abuse and addiction is very slight. Addiction begins as abuse, or
using a substance like marijuana or cocaine. You can abuse a drug (or alcohol) without
having an addiction. For example, just because Sara smoked weed a few times
doesn't mean that she has an addiction, but it does mean that she's abusing a
drug - and that could lead to an addiction.
People can get addicted to all sorts of substances. When we think of
addiction, we usually think of alcohol or illegal drugs. But people become
addicted to medications, cigarettes, even glue! And some substances are more
addictive than others: Drugs like crack or heroin are so addictive that they may
only be used once or twice before the user loses control.
Addiction means a person has no control over whether he or she uses a
drug or drinks. A person who's addicted to cocaine has grown so used to the drug
that he or she has to have it. Addiction can be physical,
psychological, or both.
Physical addiction is when a person's body actually becomes dependent on
a particular substance (even smoking is physically addictive). It also means
that a person builds tolerance to that substance, so that person
needs a larger dose than ever before to get the same effects. When a person who
is physically addicted stops using a substance like drugs, alcohol, or
cigarettes, he or she may experience withdrawal symptoms. Withdrawal can
be like having the flu - common symptoms are diarrhea,
shaking, and generally feeling awful.
Psychological addiction happens when the cravings for a drug are
psychological or emotional. People who are psychologically addicted feel
overcome by the desire to have a drug. They may lie or steal to
get it.
A person crosses the line between abuse and addiction when he or she is no
longer trying the drug to have fun or get high, but because he or she
has come to depend on it. His or her whole life centers around the need for
the drug. An addicted person - whether it's a physical or psychological
addiction or both - no longer has a choice in taking a
substance.
Signs of Addiction The most obvious
sign of an addiction is the need to have a particular drug or substance.
However, there are many other signs that can suggest a possible addiction, such
as changes in mood or weight loss or gain. (These are also signs of other
conditions, too, though, such as depression or eating disorders.)
Signs that you or someone you know may have a drug or alcohol addiction
include:
Psychological signals:
- use of drugs or alcohol as a way to forget problems or to relax
- withdrawal or keeping secrets from family and friends
- loss of interest in activities that used to be important
- problems with schoolwork, such as slipping grades or absences
- changes in friendships, such as hanging out only with friends who use
drugs
- spending a lot of time figuring out how to get drugs
- stealing or selling belongings to be able to afford drugs
- failed attempts to stop taking drugs or drinking
- anxiety, anger, or
depression
mood swings
Physical signals:
- changes in sleeping habits
- feeling shaky or sick when trying to stop
- needing to take more of the substance to get the same effect
- changes in eating habits, including weight loss or gain
Getting Help If you think you are addicted to drugs or alcohol, recognizing that
you have a problem is the first step in getting help.
A lot of people think they can kick the problem on their own, but that
doesn't work for most people. Find someone you trust to talk to. It may help to
talk to a friend or someone your own age at first, but a supportive and
understanding adult is your best option for getting help. If you can't talk to
your parents, you may want to approach a school counselor, relative, doctor,
favorite teacher, or religious leader.
Unfortunately, overcoming addiction is not easy. Quitting drugs or drinking
is probably going to be the hardest thing you've ever done. It's not a sign of
weakness if you need professional help from a trained drug counselor or
therapist. Most people who try to kick a drug or alcohol program need
professional assistance or treatment programs to do so.
Once you start a treatment program, try these tips to make the road to
recovery less bumpy:
- Tell your friends about your decision to stop using
drugs. Your true friends will respect your decision. This may mean
that you need to find a new group of friends who will be 100% supportive.
Unless everyone decides to kick their drug habit at once, you probably won't
be able to hang out with the friends you did drugs with before.
- Ask your friends or family to be available when you need
them. You may need to call someone in the middle of the night just to
talk. If you're going through a tough time, don't try to handle things on your
own - accept the help your family and friends offer.
- Accept only invitations to events that you know won't involve
drugs or alcohol. Going to the movies is probably safe, but you may
want to skip a Friday night party until you're feeling more secure. Plan
activities that don't involve drugs. Go to the movies, try bowling, or take an
art class with a friend.
- Have a plan about what you'll do if you find yourself in a place
with drugs or alcohol. The temptation will be there sometimes, but if
you know how you're going to handle it, you'll be OK. Establish a plan with
your parents or siblings so that if you call home using a code, they'll know
that your call is a signal you need a ride out of there.
- Remind yourself that having an addiction doesn't make you bad or
weak. If you backslide a bit, talk to an adult as soon as possible.
There's nothing to be ashamed about, but it's important to get help soon so
that all of the hard work you put into your recovery is not lost.
If you're worried about a friend who has an addiction, use these tips to help
him or her, too. For example, let your friend know that you are available to
talk or offer your support. If you notice a friend backsliding, talk about it
openly and ask what you can do to help. If your friend is going back to drugs or
drinking and won't accept your help, don't be afraid to talk to a
nonthreatening, understanding adult, like your parent or school counselor. It
may seem like you're ratting your friend out, but it's the best support you can
offer.
Above all, offer a friend who's battling an addiction lots of encouragement
and praise. It may seem corny, but hearing that you care is just the kind of
motivation your friend needs.
Staying Clean Recovering from a drug
or alcohol addiction doesn't end with a 6-week treatment program. It's a
lifelong process. Many people find that joining a support group can help them
stay clean. There are support groups specifically for teens and younger people
(check the Resources tab to the right of this article). You'll meet people who
have gone through the same experiences you have, and you'll be able to
participate in real-life discussions about drugs that you won't hear in your
school's health class.
Many people find that helping others is also the best way to help themselves.
Your understanding of how difficult the recovery process can be will help you to
support others - both teens and adults - who are battling an addiction.
If you do have a relapse, recognizing the problem as soon as possible is
critical. Get help right away so that you don't undo all the hard work you put
into your initial recovery. And don't ever be afraid to ask for help!
Updated and reviewed by: Eugene Shatz,
MD Date reviewed: August 2004 Originally reviewed by: Jonathan
A. Schneider, DO
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