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Introduction

Alzheimer’s disease has a large impact on family life. It is important to take the time to talk with the children and teens in your family so they understand what is happening to the person with Alzheimer’s.

The degree to which children and teens are affected by the disease depends on who has the disease — a parent or grandparent, relative, or friend. Other factors include how close the child or teen is to the person and where the person lives (in the same home, nursing facility, out-of-state, etc.)

Feelings and reactions

Children and teens may feel:

• Sad about changes in a loved one’s personality and behavior

• Confused about how people get the disease and why the person behaves differently

• Afraid of the behaviors that the person exhibits

• Worried that they or their parents might develop the disease

• Angry and frustrated by the need to repeat activities or questions

• Guilty for getting angry or being short-tempered with the person

• Jealous and resentful because of the increased amount of time and attention that is given to the person with Alzheimer’s

• Embarrassed to have friends or other visitors to the house

Children and teens may exhibit their emotions in ways you may not easily recognize. They may:

• Verbalize vague physical complaints, such as a stomachache or headache

• Perform poorly in school

• Spend more time away from home

• Stop inviting friends to the house

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Ways to help children and teens cope

• Maintain open lines of communication

• Offer comfort and support

• Provide opportunities for them to express their feelings

• Let them know their feelings are normal

• Educate them about the disease and encourage them to ask questions

• Respond honestly to questions

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Activities that can help and be done as a family

• Go for a walk

• Do household chores together, such as folding laundry, raking leaves, or washing dishes

• Listen to music, dance, or sing

• Look at old photographs

• Read a favorite book or newspaper

• Develop a memory book about the person

• Make a family tree

• Watch a movie

• Keep a journal together

Kids & Teens Web section

To help children and teens learn more about Alzheimer's disease and understand how it affects them, we have a special Kids & Teens section. It includes printed resources, book reviews and links to sites that explain how the brain works.

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