You've been waiting for this day for months: finally you get
to meet your new baby. But if you're like most new parents, you may not have a
clear idea of what that meeting will be like. Your baby's first day of life
outside the womb is one of the most eventful days in your own life. So before
you come face to face with the newest member of your family, read about what to
expect that special first day.
What Your Baby Looks Like
Although you may have
visions of a robust bouncing baby boy or girl, reality may not match that image.
Many newborns are tiny, wet creatures when they first emerge. Often their heads
are slightly pointed as a result of passing through the birth canal. This is
only temporary; the head will take on a rounded appearance within a few
days. It may be surprising to you that a newborn's head is big when
compared to the rest of the body.
Your baby also may look scrunched up since her legs and arms are kept bent at
the knees and elbows while in the womb. After months of growing in
ever-tightening close quarters, this is perfectly normal. The limbs will
straighten out as she grows. Look at her tiny fingers and toes. You'll notice
that she has paper-thin - and sometimes long - nails.
Her skin may have one of several possible appearances. Regardless of her
ethnic background, she will look somewhat red, pink, or purple at first. Some
babies are born with a white, cheesy coating called vernix, which
protects their skin from the constant exposure to amniotic fluid. Other babies
are born very wrinkled. And some, especially premature babies, have a soft,
furry appearance because of lanugo, a fine hair that develops while in
the womb. Lanugo comes off after a week or two. Rashes, blotches, or tiny white
spots are also not unusual on newborns. These generally clear up over the first
few days or weeks after birth.
Remember your baby's appearance will change dramatically over the next
weeks as she grows.
Her limbs will extend, her skin tone will probably change, and her blotches will
disappear. Savor the momentous occasion of meeting your child in person. The big
adventure has begun! Your newborn will stir your heart from the very
beginning - and chances are you'll view her as the most beautiful little person
you've ever seen.