For Immediate Release
March 24, 2004
Remarks by First Lady Laura Bush at the Alzheimer's Association Gala
J.W. Marriott
Washington, D.C.
March 24, 2004
MRS. BUSH: Thank you, George, for your very warm welcome, and thank
you all for being here and raising all this money that is going to such
a great cause. And thanks to Trish Vradenburg, Paul and Terry for your
dedication to families affected by Alzheimer's disease. America is
grateful to the Alzheimer's Association for leading the charge in
research and treatment. And I'm delighted to be here with Mrs. Carter
and Senator Clinton to celebrate the first gala in our nation's
capital. There is no better way to celebrate this milestone than by
saluting the dedicated caregivers and volunteers who make a difference
in so many lives.
I know how hard it is to lose someone to Alzheimer's disease. I
lost my father seven years ago, so this subject is never far from my
heart. My parents were members of the great generation honored here
tonight. They met and married in El Paso, Texas, and later moved to
Midland when my dad returned home at the end of World War II. I was
born and raised in Midland where my father built homes, and mother
helped with the books. My hometown was an ideal place to grow up, and
for George and me, the perfect place to raise our own family. We were
able to share the first years of our babies' lives with family and
close friends. My dad would come over every afternoon after I put the
girls down for a nap. He would walk in the front door and yell, "Laura,
are the babies asleep yet?" Of course, they would hop right up and yell
for him.
I'm happy that my girls were able to spend so much time with my
parents - and to learn and laugh with them. We often tell stories about
my dad and relive those great memories from their childhood. It's
important to me that they remember their grandfather for the funny,
caring, strong man that he was - the man before Alzheimer's. My father
was eighty when he was diagnosed with this disease. This was a
difficult time for my family, especially for my mother, who saw her
husband slipping away bit by bit every day. In many ways we were
blessed. Since my parents lived in Midland for five decades, they had
fifty years worth of friends who offered support.
My mother was able to care for my father at home and she had
caretakers to help. But she was still the one who bore the greatest
responsibility for his care. I remember her reading to my father. He
loved stories by Texas writer Elmer Kelton. Those hours spent reading
about prairies and cowboys provided a welcome respite for them both.
It's difficult for caregivers to cope with the symptoms and the
behaviors associated with this tragic disease, and the constant care is
physically and emotionally draining. Most of all, the heart wrenching
sadness of the slow, disappearance of a loved one can be unbearable.
Caregivers need a strong network of people who can provide advice and
assistance.
And many of you have devoted years of your life and your profession
to this cause. Because of you, countless Americans are living better
lives. We are making progress against this disease every day. A new
generation of drugs are under review, and more are in development. And
caregivers are receiving greater training and support. For many of you,
taking care of a loved one is not a choice, but part of your character.
You are wives, husbands, and children who love someone with an illness.
But to so many, you are heroes. Loving someone with all your heart is
human. Never giving up is heroic.
My father's favorite Elmer Kelton books are about every day heroes
and their tales of perseverance. Kelton once said, "I can't write about
heroes seven feet tall and invincible. I write about people five foot
eight and nervous." Each of you shows the world that you don't need to
be seven feet tall to make a difference. True heroes are ordinary
people with extraordinary will and strength. Together we can make a
difference in the lives of those with Alzheimer's and in the lives of
those who love them.
Thank you.
###
|